Why do we need a sense of ritual in love? Because "love" needs to be expressed. Mom and dad love you. Maybe Mom and dad won't tell you personally, but parents 'love is integrated into their children's food, clothing, housing and transportation.

Friends love you and blend in with their companionship. Male and female friends also express their love for each other in some unique ways between lovers. A bouquet of flowers at the arrival of the festival, a deep and powerful hug, a gift that the other person likes, or a carefully prepared table of meals... There are big and small ceremonies, but the sense of ceremony is no big or small, and love is no big or small.

Girls like to receive flowers, but some girls have no feelings for the flowers themselves. What they value is the intention of boys to send flowers.

Everyone expresses love differently. Every couple has their own model of getting along, and the same model may not be suitable for other couples.

Everyone's financial situation and personality are different. As a party in a relationship, what we should do is to work hard to improve ourselves, become excellent with the other party, and pursue those ideals that are unrealistic together.

"If we have money, we will go out to eat all kinds of delicious food, travel, and see the beautiful scenery; if we don't have money, then we will eat in the canteen and take a walk around the campus holding hands in the evening..."

Some people's journey is the sea of stars, and some people dream of small bridges and flowing water. The gorgeous sense of ceremony is certainly desirable, but when we don't have enough strength to face life, we learn to slowly lower our expectations and see clearly the gap between ideals and reality. And love does not require copying and pasting, and it is the best model to suit each other.