I believe that a good marriage is achieved by each other. After a few years of getting along, the two should get better and better, rather than consuming each other.

When I traveled around to explore the world, Dong Ge was the person who always supported me. Although he could not accompany me all the time, he was always the fastest person to respond to my circle of friends and the first audience of my travel travels. When our baby was just born, he got a good promotion opportunity to work in other places. I am willing to reduce travel and take on the responsibility of taking care of the baby. We all hope to give each other the greatest freedom to realize their ideals in a seemingly binding marriage relationship.

Life that becomes trivial after having a baby, coupled with distance, the biggest killer of love, has become challenges to our feelings. The solution to these challenges is to "elope at the right time", put aside trivial matters, and spend two or three days of freedom alone. world. As a native of Chengdu, I am very happy to finally write a travel note about the colorful Chengdu.

Come on, accept this romantic Chengdu dating map.

The first stop of the date-Shadowless Church

I was attracted when I first saw the photo of Shadowless Church. The light and shadow were blurred and dreamy. I had taken photos with my best friend before. It is usually a choice for girls who come here for a date. This time, they wanted to take a set of wedding photos with Dong Ge to commemorate the 4th wedding anniversary. It's not very formal to say it's a wedding photo. I actually made a small set of gifts on Taobao. Dong Ge is dressed in work clothes, and his family status is high and high. In fact, I didn't feel very sweet when taking the photo. On the contrary, when I repaired the photo after taking the photo, I felt that I had an official commemorative photo of my four years of marriage, and I felt beautiful.

Looking back on the past six years, we were two people with completely different personalities. He was calm and orderly and a little coquettish, and I was wild and wild. When we first got together, he couldn't stand my casual personality. I couldn't understand the pedantic nature of having to eat lunch at 12:00 noon on time no matter what time we had breakfast. There are not a few people who break up using "incompatible personality" as an excuse. When I was with Dong Ge, I found this sentence to be deceptive. The only thing that can separate people is "no longer love". People who love each other will turn all personality differences into a few jokes.

On the way to Shadowless Church, the car drove across an deserted country road. My good friend helped us record this moment. This scene is very similar to the morning of our wedding four years ago. The sense of ceremony reminds us not to easily throw our feelings into the river of time and let them drift.

Shadowless Church is located in the China-France Agricultural Science and Technology Park. This science and technology park is designed in the South French style. Shadowless Church is actually one of the works of art in the science and technology park, not a real church. The distant view church is also called the "disappeared church". The weather was actually not very good on the day we took our wedding dress, and the grass next to Wuying Church was plucked. There were very few photos taken with the church. I would like to tell everyone about the photos I took with my best friend. The light was very good that day and there was also vegetation next to it.

The most beautiful moment inside the Shadowless Church is that light shines through and complements this frame-structure building.

There is also a Nanfranco-style commercial street in the science and technology park. The colorful Nanfranco-style buildings make people completely forget that they are in Chengdu. In summer, the large areas of verbena in the park are really like France. I often travel around and rarely pay attention to the interesting places around Chengdu. Now, in order to have more time to gather with Dongge, I discovered that Chengdu actually has these lovely places within an hour's drive. There is never a lack of beauty around us, but sometimes we don't pay attention to it.

The second stop of the date-Mindanli Yeshe Hotel

Folk Song Li Ye Luxury Hotel, I think this is the most suitable hotel around Chengdu for anniversaries. It only takes an hour to drive from the city to enter another world. Four fairy-tale shell rooms sit on the entire Miaoyin Lake, making it a paradise. The most important thing is that we can easily realize the romantic elements we need here. After staying with our best friend once, we have already issued the decree to live here together with Dong Ge.

Because it was already late when I took the wrong way to the hotel, just in time for the hotel to be setting off fireworks, how could I miss such a romantic moment?"The perfect moment with you..."

I bought this bouquet of flowers in my hand myself, because folk songs are very suitable for bringing a bouquet of flowers to take photos. By the way, it can be a gift to welcome Dong Ge. There are not so many musts and musts in this world. For example, boys must send flowers and buy them when they see them like them. Girls must have the ability to please themselves, so the joy gained in love is the icing on the cake.

The girl's heart can be well satisfied in folk songs. She is surrounded by balloons and flowers, and the music is accompanied by bright fireworks. Although the plot is a bit cliché, no one will refuse to eat this candy.

If you live in a folk song, you don't really want to eat out. The hotel can book dinner in advance. There are buffet barbecue, fried chicken, bamboo shrimp, etc., all taste good, and it's fun to operate it yourself. Our dinner today is beef hot pot, which is eaten on the platform at the door. The outdoors in November is not too cold, and it is so comfortable to accompany it with the steaming hot pot.

The guests next door were celebrating their birthdays. We had just finished eating hot pot and set off fireworks. We recorded a video with Dong Ge. This kiss+ fireworks scene itself was sweetened. The sense of ceremony in plain days is like adding a vitamin C effervescent tablet to plain water, and pink bubbles will appear instantly.

The crisp air in the morning in the hotel came to my face. I lay in bed and watched the morning fog on Miaoyin Lake gradually dissipate. It was a good opportunity to relax on the weekend. The hotel's breakfast is buffet with omelettes, toast, fruit, cereals and porridge. Although there are not many choices, it feels simple and comfortable to eat.

This is a photo taken last time during the barbecue at the door of the room in the folk song. I suggest that if you have enough time, it would be more interesting to choose the barbecue.

In the late summer of the greenery, Taurus, who belongs to the nature system, feels free and free every time he comes here.

TIPS: If you want to go to the folk song, you must remember to contact the hotel's customer service staff to provide the correct navigation location. We used Baidu maps to guide it here, but we turned out to a tractor road. The ground was full of mud. It was a very narrow road, and we were in a dilemma. I've experienced situations where my car skidded and stuck in the mud before and couldn't drive out. I thought never to slip or the tires sank, and my wonderful journey might be over. Dong Ge was very calm. He told me: "You girls only know white cars and black cars. The chassis of the Jeep Freedom Man is higher than that of an ordinary sedan, and it has a low-speed four-wheel drive and a power of 1.3T. This bad road won't happen what you think. I'll drive it out for you in minutes." Sure enough, we quickly turned around and drove back on the road we had fought for.

The third stop of the date-road trip to Bipeng Valley

Unplanned weekends are also very casual. Dong Ge saw that it was snowing in Bipeng Valley online and wanted to see the snow on a whim. We immediately drove five hours from the folk songs to Li County. However, the journey was not very smooth. The people who arrived in line at the entrance of the Bipeng Valley Scenic Area at 8 a.m. were so scary that the crowd immediately scared us off. Sometimes travel, like life, cannot always follow our wishes. Going with everything is the philosophy of life to treat ourselves well. Moreover, the most important thing in the journey of life is the person who accompanies you to watch the scenery.

Without entering the scenic spot, we drove around the scenic spot. Except for Bipeng Gully, there were very few people in other places. The colorful forest had not yet fallen, and we drove slowly all the way, returning to the wonderful comfort of doing nothing when we were in love.

It should be when you are with the right people, and even the inconspicuous small village becomes cute.

Walking all the way from the small road at the entrance of the Bipeng Valley Scenic Area, the entire mountain on the five-kilometer road is covered with colorful forests, and smoke from the villages at the foot of the mountain is curling up. Even if you haven't entered the scenic area, you still feel that the trip is worthwhile. A road trip is like an escape, struggling out of the trivial whirlpool of reality, giving yourself a period of physical and mental exile, remembering the original appearance of love, and returning to chaos without losing your way.

Liangtaigou is a scenic spot under development and is free to enter. Liangtaigou can cross the mountain and drive all the way to Xiaojin Siguniang Mountain, but it has not been officially built yet. You can see the snowy mountains from here, much like driving yourself in new Zealand. This kind of niche where you don't know your final destination is the most fascinating. You are looking forward to and nervous, hoping to find a secret place.

The weather in the mountains is really uncertain. It was still clear and clear, but it turned cloudy in less than two minutes. Just grab this snowy mountain and it disappeared. The scenery is like an unpredictable life. Sometimes it really takes some luck.

Seize the last snowy mountains that will disappear

We tied the coke we had drunk over the past two days to the back of the car to end our weekend "elopement". This is a custom originating in the western United States. It turns out that he is using kind sarcasm to describe the newly married person as "eloping"! In the old days, people who eloped and fled in poverty, carrying pots and pans stolen from their homes and tying them to the carriage with leather ropes. When the carriage accelerated, the pots and pans tied with the leather ropes were scattered on the ground and jingled. Later, people recreated this "elopement" scene in a kind way to "tease" the newlyweds, which evolved into a marriage custom. Because pots and pans must be needed in daily life, people use coke bottles as replacements.

The fourth stop of dating-trendy Tai Koo Li

The fourth stop is going to Taikoo Li. Along the way, we pass Sichuan University and Jinxiu Lane. When I was a student, I liked to go to Sichuan University to shoot ginkgo trees. Year after year, this golden season comes again.

If I say that the city in my heart is the most suitable place for couples dating, Taikoi is certainly on the list. After all, this is the most fashionable place in Chengdu, and it is a one-stop solution for eating, drinking, entertainment, and accommodation. Bosher Hotel is my favorite place in Tai Koo Li. Although it is low-key hidden in the depths of Tai Koo Li, its unique design that combines tradition and modernity has long made it popular among many designers, stars and fashionable people. Love. Its temple cafe and Mixun Tea House are both places where I want to find peace and freedom in the noisy city.

Many photos of Chen Man's "Here Is Chengdu" photography were taken in Boshe.

Bosch's iconic sunken staircase is a good place to film, and many celebrities have taken fashion blockbusters here.

Boscher's architectural design is a harmonious blend of tradition and modernity.

Enjoy delicious brunch or afternoon tea to give us a little reassurance in life living in the reinforced and concrete world.

Boshe Hotel's Mixun Tea House is a treasure-like existence. It has a Chinese enclosed courtyard design and fragrant tea is matched with Chinese refreshments. This scene matches its name: Seeking a place of tranquility.

A classic line appearing in "Roman Holiday":"Either travel or read, there will always be one on the road, body and soul." Fangsuo Bookstore in Taikoo Li is also a good place for couples to date. Before he was with me, Dong Ge hardly read books. Under my "teaching by words and deeds", he actually took my book to read one day. Now he has also developed the habit of reading books. What kind of people you meet in this life is actually very important. After getting along for a long time, two people will influence each other subtly. We strive to improve ourselves in order to make blind love more reliable through conversation, habits, and aura.

I am dusty and say good night to the center of the city.

The fifth stop of the date-those "newly rich people in the south of the city"

The direction from Chengdu Tianfu Interchange to Renshou is the hottest High-tech Zone and Tianfu New District, which are now concentrated in Chengdu. Because they are places where young people gather, there are also many places worth checking in for couples. Luhu A4 Art Museum is a building designed by Antoine Predock, the father of earth architecture. The art exhibition center built next to the lake is integrated with the surrounding red sandstone landform and is one of the landmark buildings in Tianfu New District.

When I went there, the A4 Art Museum was temporarily closed to the exhibition in Buxin, but I was pleasantly surprised to find that it also had a free art and architecture library-Xunlu Library. The library has three floors, each floor has seats, and there is also an open-air platform on the second floor overlooking the Luhu. The library also provides free drinking water because it is far from the city and there are very few people.

There are a handful of Fandai chaos grass on Luke Island next to the A4 Art Museum. However, Luke Island has not yet been completely repaired, and it will definitely be a place for Internet celebrities to check in the future.

This place is also very suitable for photo shoots. Although the Luhu Lake has been blurred, it can still be vaguely seen that the environment is very good.

Yang19 club, it is the hottest restaurant recently, overlooking Xincheng South at an altitude of 200 meters. It is also a good choice for couples to date. It is actually quite necessary to have afternoon tea with your spouse to give two people a comfortable space to talk about their respective jobs in a more romantic dating way, discuss the trivialities of life, and continue to start a new and dynamic journey.

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